I’ll be back. Someday…

 

back soon

Taking a break, people.  Don’t know when, but I shall return.  Plenty of things to write about, just some things going on that I need to focus on.

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Vaccine-autism link controversy

UntitledLast week I stirred up a little controversy with the post about Ignatius, which tells how this little boy received at least 10 vaccines in one sitting prior to his family noticing significant behavioral changes in him.  Now I have never been anti-vaccine, however, I do think the vaccine schedule is too aggressive , the administration of them is too capricious, and that there are some vaccines we could do without.  Regardless of whatever we believe, there is an epidemic occurring.  Using information obtained from the CDC’s website, the graph shown here demonstrates an increase of 70% in just 6 years!

Last Saturday I received an email from the Autism Action Network (www.autismactionnetwork.org), informing me of a Congressional hearing on the federal response to autism.  This hearing took place on 11/28, and was the 1st in 10 years on the federal response to autism.  Dr. Brian Hooker, who has an autistic son, provided written testimony to this hearing.  It is my opinion that his testimony is shattering to those who continue to espouse there is no link between vaccines and autism.  This man holds a doctorate in biochemical engineering, and submitted over 100 Freedom of Information requests to the CDC (request regarding his research into the safety of vaccines), most of which were denied.  What is the CDC trying to hide?  You can watch the video of this hearing at the link below.  By the way, Dr. Hooker determined his son, at 2 months of age, was exposed to a level of mercury that exceeded by 134 times the FDA’s recommended exposure limit.  All thanks to the vaccines he received.

http://www.c-span.org/Events/Lawmakers-Look-into-Federal-Response-to-Rising-Rates-of-Autism/10737436113-1/

One action resulting from the aforementioned hearing was an invite for people to provide their relevant stories and have them entered into the official record.  I am please to say my colleague has entered the story of her nephew, Ignatius, into this record.

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The story of a little boy we’ll call Ignatius

vaccinesNot too long ago a colleague of mine asked some me questions about Gracie, out of concern for her nephew, Ignatius (name changed in the interest of privacy).  I asked my colleague some questions about Ignatius, and after hearing her describe his symptoms, I urged her to get him evaluated by an expert in autism.

What follows is a my colleague’s story…

My Nephew was born in 2009 and was progressing at an accelerated rate – i.e. words like ‘ma ma and cat’ and feeding people with utensils at 12 months old.  He is incredibly intelligent and I can easily see him becoming an Engineer based on his interests right now.  Anyway, when he was 18 months old, he had a regression event.  We suspect it was based on three significant events that took place at that time.  First, he went on a vacation with his Father to NY; this was the first time he was ever separated from his mother.  My sister was a stay at home mom, so Ignatius had never been separated from her for more than the occasional hour when she went shopping; then, all of a sudden she is gone for two weeks.  That had to affect him psychologically.  The second event that took place was he was vaccinated prior to the trip.  At that time, he was behind on his vaccinations, so his doctor gave Ignatius all the injections to get him current at one time…10 injections in total, with each injection ranging from 1 to 3 vaccines per injection.  Lastly, the third event is that Ignatius suffered several ear infections to the point he needed tubes in his ears.  Prior to the surgery, he was on some really heavy-duty antibiotics.  It is my personal belief his little body was overpowered with stress, infection, antibiotics, and vaccines, all happening at relatively the same time in his life.

After this life event, Ignatius stopped talking altogether.  He began to exhibit signs of Autism, performing repetitive behaviors he couldn’t seem to stop doing.  Things like spinning in circles, moving blocks back and forth, little to no eye contact, isolated play, etc.  We were concerned about his lack of speech, so my sister took him to a doctor to be tested for Autism.   The test results were negative, and Ignatius’s condition was diagnosed as Delayed Speech.

Fast forward to this year.  He is now 3 and is still not talking at the appropriate level.  Additionally, he picked up some Autistic-like behaviors such as being an incredibly picky eater, toe walking, and various pressure stimulations such as squeezing his hands together or on a person until he shakes, chewing on anything string-like – Shoelaces, drawstrings, etc.  His behavior was incredibly difficult to deal with.  His temper tantrums were so violent, throwing things and screaming.   So we decided to get a second opinion for Autism.  We saw an Autism Specialist, Dr. Brian D. Udell, and he diagnosed Ignatius as being mild to moderate in the Autism Spectrum.  Dr. Udell ordered a stool sample and a blood sample because, thinking the issue may be related to Ignatius’s diet (he may be allergic to what he is eating) and the bacteria (or lack thereof) within the gastro-intestinal (GI) tract.  During our initial meeting, Dr. Udell ordered Ignatius to be placed on a Probiotic and GSH (Glutathione) until we got the test results back. 

With just those two supplements added to Ignatius’s daily morning juice we have seen significant improvements!  He has a vocabulary of 20 to 30 words now, and has spoken two complete sentences – “I don’t know.” and “Wow!  Look at that!”  We also play the ‘Can you say…’ game and he is able to repeat almost all of the words we’ve thrown at him (he is still working on ‘Auntie’ though).  However, even though he knows these words, he isn’t ‘talking’.  When he wants his mother’s attention he will say ‘Mama, Mama, Mama’.  He understands the meaning behind the words he says, but they are usually just that – words.  He has yet to have an actual conversation or make a demand verbally.   I don’t want to give the impression I am undermining the progress he has made, I just know this is just the beginning of a long journey.  Ignatius has exhibited a remarkable improvement in speech, and I believe he will continue to do so.   Additionally, his temper tantrums aren’t nearly as violent.  He rarely throws things, although his screaming has gotten worse.  Dr. Udell indicated it might.  He is completely engaged in his activities.  Recently I was able to read an entire book to him, and he actually sat there and was engaged the whole time.  I’ve never been able to do that before.  It may seem like a small achievement, but to me it was MASSIVE.  He is more affectionate now, even kissing and hugging us.  Overall, we are so impressed with Ignatius’s progress and SO THANKFUL that we found Dr. Udell.  It is just one of the many times I have truly appreciated the power of Google.

Yesterday, we got the test results back from the stool and blood samples.  What we found was shocking.  EVERYTHING that Ignatius will eat, he’s allergic to.  The charts indicate a scale from 0 to 6 with 6 being highly allergic.  A total of 96 different food types were tested.  I won’t list all of them, but some of Ignatius’s significant results were as follows:  Casein – 10, Gluten – 8.5.  What food is he guaranteed to eat when he won’t eat anything else?  Macaroni and Cheese, which is loaded with Casein and Gluten.  One finding I found particularly interesting was his allergy to eggs.  He scored 9.75 for Egg Whites and 7.0 for Egg Yolk, for a combined total of 16.75!!!  It is fact that several vaccines are incubated in chicken eggs, and poor Ignatius was injected with something he is MOST allergic to, all in an effort to prevent disease.  Am I the only one to see the irony there?   Nobody to my knowledge is ever tested for egg allergies before they are injected with vaccines, even though eggs are typical incubators. 

His stool results were also very telling. According to Dr. Udell, there are 5 beneficial bacteria that should be present.  At least 4 of these bacteria are expected for a healthy GI tract.  2 of these 5 bacteria weren’t present in Ignatius’s GI tract, and the amount of yeast growing inside him is off the charts (yeast is a negative consequence of an unhealthy GI tract).  Dr. Udell stated the yeast are digesting all the nutrients from the food Ignatius is eating, which is why he has an exceptionally high acid level in his stools, and why he is so skinny.  We already knew his stools were acidic because he will develop literal blisters if left in a soiled diaper for any length of time.  Also , Ignatius’s sister weighs about the same as he does, and she is a year and a half younger than him.

The good news is all of this is treatable.  Dr. Udell has modified his supplements and added some additional vitamins.  The only actual medication that Ignatius will be taking is Diflucan to kill off the yeast.  Ignatius’s diet will need to change, and we plan to introduce him to these changes slowly.  His Macaroni and Cheese will now be made with Gluten-Free Pasta and Soy Cheese.  That will take a lot of getting used to.  We are prepared for the long, difficult road of Ignatius refusing to eat, throwing temper tantrums, and overall malaise.  In the end, though, having a healthy boy will make it all worthwhile. 

We are very encouraged by the results we have seen in Ignatius, thus far, and we are hopeful the changes in the diet will assist him in becoming a healthier person.  Dr. Udell thinks Ignatius will be what society considers ‘normal’ within 18 to 24 months.  Dr. Udell did indicate, however, that Ignatius may have some long-lasting social difficulties.  Overall, though, Ignatius will be much, much, better, and from what I’ve seen in the last 3 months I believe Dr. Udell.

In case any if you are interested in learning more about Dr. Udell, you can visit his websites, http://www.childdev.org/about_dr_udell.html and http://www.theautismdoctor.com/

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Stylin’…

This is how I roll…

About two weeks ago Kristine and I decided to take a stroll through the neighborhood with Gracie, being that the weather was so pleasant.  Although Gracie can walk, she does so on her terms, which is why we wheel her in a wheelchair whenever we go for walks, shopping, etc.  Gracie has a habit of just laying down when she’s decided she’s had enough.  Imagine standing in line at the checkout in a grocery store, and your 10 year-old child just lays down on the floor, amongst all the other people and shopping carts waiting in line.  Anyway, back to our walk… we load Gracie into the crappy wheelchair we have for her.  I say the chair is crappy because of the four tiny wheels the chair is equipped with.  These wheels are adequate only for transporting a person across large expanses of seamless surfaces with glass-like finishes.  Okay, I exaggerate a little, but if you’re not paying attention and encounter a crack with a raised edge, you’d think you ran into a wall.  Fortunately, we have not yet launched Gracie from her chair to the ground.  Although it probably helps that she’s buckled in. 

So Kristine, Gracie, and I are walking, and a man named Ken pulls up alongside of us in his truck.  Ken, who I had never met until this point, happens to live in our neighborhood.  He tells us his mother had passed away, and that she has a really nice wheelchair he’d like to give to us if we were interested.  We, of course, take Ken up on his offer.  What a difference the new chair (pictured above) makes on our walks now!  I went online and learned these chairs cost at least $200 in used condition.  We’re so grateful to this man’s generosity, that he would donate his mother’s wheelchair to us.

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Sibling love

Sisters having a blast at the Space Coast State Fair!!!

Below is my 8-yr old’s 2nd post:

I think my relationship with my sister is kind of hard to explain, but also kind of funny.  One time, she even tried to steal my food!  Actually, a couple of times!  That will make you laugh!  Anyway, our relationship starts out like this.  When I was 4 and Gracie was 6 we did gymnastics together.  But, now we do horseback riding together.  I do gymnastics, dance, girl scouts, and of course, horseback riding.  Both of us were born in Kettering, Ohio.  You know, I miss Ohio, and I’m sure Gracie does too.  We have a dog named Jackie and, I wish Gracie would interact with Jackie more.  Gracie and I are Scottish, Italian, English, Cherokee Indian, French, Dutch, and Irish.  I really love my sister, and I try to do everything I can to make her happy.  Have a good year!

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Short, yellow bus

Putting Gracie on the bus

God, how I hate those words.  Someone in our neighborhood has a license plate frame on their bright yellow SUV that says, “(Owner’s name) short bus”.  How cute.  I want to vandalize this vehicle everytime I see it.  I know it’s only a joke, but I don’t find it funny.  Sorry, but that’s the way I feel.  My only consolation is Gracie’s bus is full-sized, despite only a handful of special needs kids riding this bus.  Maybe the school wishes to avoid the stigma of riding the short bus?

Speaking of busing and the school system, we’ve had our share of frustrations regarding these issues.  Because Gracie and her sister, Gabby, must go to different schools, there are additional logistical problems requiring us to address.  Add the fact that Kristine went back to work full-time this year, and the transient nature of Florida’s population (especially with an USAF base nearby), the busing situation gets further complicated.

We started the school year out with a workable plan to get both of our children on their buses.  Sounds simple enough, right?  Not really.  For obvious reasons, Gracie’s pick-up and drop-off points are at the end of our driveway.  Gabby’s bus stop is three blocks away.  Fortunately, Gracie’s bus arrived first, which allowed me to take Gabby to her bus stop after Gracie was picked up. 

All was good until Gracie’s bus route had to be changed due to two kids no longer needing service en route to our house.  This change impacted Gracie’s schedule by 20-25 minutes, requiring me to load the girls into my car, drive Gabby to her bus stop, return to our house after Gabby is picked up, unload Gracie from my car, and then put Gracie on her bus.  But hey, I’m flexible.  No problem, right?  Wrong.

Yesterday I found out that Gracie’s bus has been waiting at our house for less than 5 minutes to drop Gracie off.  Why the wait?  Because our aftercare provider, Christine, cannot be in 2 places at the same time during the drop-offs.  Christine has to meet  her daughter, Sam, and Gabby at their bus stop, then hurry over to our house (3 blocks away) to get Gracie off of her bus.  This goes on for a while until the school system gets wind of it, then we’re summarily informed we need to come up with a solution.  Now.  Ummm… kind of hard to think under pressure.  Does Kristine (Gracie’s mother) quit her job over 5 minutes?  No, that’s stupid.  Oh good, the school has a suggestion.  The school asks if Gabby and Sam can walk to our house from their bus stop.  Seriously?!  These are little girls!  Do these people watch the news?!  Then I thought maybe Gracie’s bus can drop her off at Gabby’s bus stop.  Oh, nope, forgot the school system has a ‘rule’ against different pick-up and drop-off locations.  Hmmm… what to do, what to do?

Eureka!  Kristine and a co-worker of mine hit upon the same idea.  Gabby and Sam can walk to our house with another little girl, Abby, and her mother.  They live across the street from us.  Meanwhile, Christine can be at our house waiting on Gracie.  We’ll see how that goes next week.  Of course, I fully expect us to have to make another adjustment before 2012 is over.

Running the blockade!!!

One last bit of frustration over the busing situation.  What is it with people not parking in their driveway?  Nevermind two-car garages (which is usually chock-full of junk), adequate space in their driveways to park their vehicles, and HOA covenants prohibiting street parking, they still have to park in the street for whatever reason.  This very morning while getting a picture of Gracie and the bus, I look up the street and see trouble brewing.  Cars parked on both sides of the street!  No surprise, though, as this is almost a daily occurrence.  So I walk over there in preparation to photograph the situation, thinking the bus will manuever through the cars.  Nope.  The bus driver can’t get through, and starts blowing his horn.  I start walking up to the house where one of the blockading car’s owner lives.  I see someone duck behind their blinds.  Jeez.  Oh, here comes the man of the house, walking his dog.  I say nothing as he quickly walks by, not wanting to escalate an already tense moment.  Maybe things will change after today, but I doubt it.  One of these days I’ll be compelled to talk with these neighbors, and am concerned it may not go well.

Finally, on an unrelated subject, I want to tell all of you about a fellow blogger, Peter Kurtz.  Peter recently was inspired to start his own blog,  http://peterkurtz.wordpress.com/.  Peter was referred to my blog by a mutual friend of ours, Ben.  Although I have never met Peter, he seems like a swell guy.  Anybody who writes about American history, whether it’s historical fiction or not, is swell in my book (no pun intended).  I look forward to reading his book “Bluejackets in the Blubber Room”.  Please take a moment to look at Peter’s blog, and follow it if you like what you see.    Thanks.

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More on toothpaste…

I just don’t know what to believe anymore… oral hygiene and cardiovascular health are linked, the better oral hygiene you practice, the better your ticker in the long run.  The toothpaste you’re using is poison.  Hmmm… what to do about this conundrum?

Have you ever stopped to consider the ingredient list for commercial toothpastes?  How many times through the years have you heard that flouride is good for us?  A quick bing search reveals several sources that claim flouride has been linked to thyroid problems, among others. 

Another, quite nasty ingredient in toothpaste is sodium lauryl sulfate (SLS).  It’s the stuff that makes your conventional toothpaste get all nice and foamy.  It’s also the same stuff used in engine degreasers.  It’s fair to say SLS probably isn’t good for you, as well as some of the other ingredients in toothpaste.

So what does all this have to do with Gracie, right?  In an earlier post I mentioned I brush her teeth with a safe alternative that is free of toxins (see www.toothsoap.com).   I was concerned about her swallowing toothpaste, as she doesn’t know to spit it out.  Our dentist didn’t seem too concerned when I told him about my worries, and he offered no suggestions to alleviate them.  I like my dentist and all, but had to go with my instinct.

I never pass up an opportunity to experience some of the things Gracie must put up with.  Afterall, I’d never expect her to do something I wasn’t willing to do myself.  Not only does Gracie get her teeth brushed with tooth soap, I tried it myself for months (more on that another day).  What does it tastes like?  Well, um, just like soap.  It really took some getting used to.  I was so anxious to hear what the dentist was going to say at Gracie’s next checkup.  The result?  Everything’s fine!  Her teeth checked out great.  And what’s more is that her breath smells much better (this the inital reason why I started looking into toothpaste alternatives).

So if this post piqued your interest in toothpaste, the potential harm it can cause, and healthier alternatives, I suggest you spend some time to research the subject.  While you’re at it, do some reading on flouridating our water supplies.  What you learn may surprise you.

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Fundraising progress

Hello everyone!  For this post I thought I’d provide an update on our fundraising efforts.  Starting six weeks ago, we’ve managed to collect just over $500 from nine donors.  A big THANK YOU goes out to these people for getting things started!  You know who you are!  Also, my dad and I recently completed a side job for someone, and set our proceeds aside for Gracie’s stem cell therapy.  The proceeds amounted to $800.  The total funds raised for Gracie now amounts to $1,337.

Please contribute to our cause, even if its only $1.  Your support is sincerely appreciated. As you can see in the above chart, raising $20,000 by next summer is our goal. 

Recently I started thinking of other ways to raise money and awareness for our cause.  I’m thinking about organizing 5k walk/run across one of the Melbourne, Florida causeways.  The event is tentatively scheduled for February of 2013.  It will be so cool if I can get someone in our old hometown of Franklin, Ohio to organize a similar event on the same date.   

Finally, look what Gracie did last night!  She was being a little mischievous.  The mattress is quite heavy, so it gives some indication how strong Gracie is.  No worries yet about her destroying this bed.  Just don’t want her to hurt herself.  I may have to come up with a way to keep her from separating the mattress from the frame.

Why does she do that?!

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Hygiene, Part Two

Dirty!!!

Children with severe autism are basically incapable of caring for themselves.  The caregivers are responsible for all aspects of an autistic person’s hygiene.  Bathing, combing their hair, brushing their teeth, wiping their nose (and other parts), clipping their nails, everything.

Of all the hygiene tasks we perform for Gracie, I dislike clipping her nails the most.  They grow so fast!  But keeping her fingernails short is a must, otherwise she scratches herself or others, and her nails get nasty quickly.  Getting Gracie to remain still while clipping her nails used to be quite a challenge.  Now the challenge is getting her fingers into position so I can clip her nails.  Her fingers are like noodles when I try to position them. 

As I just mentioned, her nails dirty quickly, and must be cleaned often.  The main reason is because Gracie doesn’t get the concept of silverware.  As a consequence, she’s limited to anything she can eat with her fingers, and we must cut up all of her food into bite-size pieces.  Eating in general warrants a post of its own, and will get to that another day.

Anyway, clipping her nails is task that has mainly fallen upon my father and I.  Something I guess we’re better at than our wives.  I am very careful not to cut Gracie’s nails too short.  A few years ago my mother clipped Gracie’s fingernails too short, and they started bleeding a little.  Needless to say, I was a little upset, as was my mother.  To this day I don’t believe she’s ever attempted to clip them again.

Then I worry about ingrown toenails.  We had one scare recently where we thought she was getting an ingrown toenail.  Fortunately, the situation resolved itself after a visit to a podiatrist and the application of Mupirocin (an antibiotic cream).

I realize this post seems to be rather mundane, but I write it to demonstrate virtually nothing is mundane when it comes to taking care of an autistic child.  I only wish it were so.  There are challenges to deal with in every aspect of their lives.  As I finish drafting this post, I know that Gracie’s nails need to be cut again already.  But I’ll let that wait until tomorrow, as she’s now sound asleep.

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Hygiene, Part One

“Don’t move, Gracie.  Stop biting.  Almost done… finished!  Good girl!”

It has taken years to master the art of brushing Gracie’s teeth, and I’m still perfecting my technique.  Brushing her teeth is a personal hygiene task for which I’m largely responsible.

Years ago brushing Gracie’s teeth seemed impossible, as she would bite the toothbrush as soon as I put it into her mouth.  With Gracie latched onto the toothbrush like a pit bull to its chew toy, I would simply succeed in only shaking Gracie’s head back and forth as I tried to brush her teeth.  We’d go through several toothbrushes a year, being that the bristles and toothbrush head would be mangled from her constant biting on the toothbrush. 

There was a time I had to cradle Gracie’s head between my thighs, with her laying down and me sitting down (both of us on the floor), in order for me to brush her teeth.  Her arms would be pinned underneath my legs to keep her from interfering with my attempts to brush her teeth.  So glad we’ve progressed beyond that.  Nowadays I’m able to brush her teeth without too much trouble. But more on that in a moment.

Of course, Gracie doesn’t get the concept of spitting out the toothpaste when we’re done brushing her teeth.  After brushing her teeth and working up a nice bit of foam, Gracie simply swallows the toothpaste.  This is why we use just a minimal amount of toothpaste.  Because I worried about the long-term harmful effects of swallowing toothpaste, I switched to a toothpaste alternative (see http://www.toothsoap.com/) that is safe to swallow.  Toothpaste is yet another subject that merits a post by itself. 

As I said, brushing her teeth is no longer too much trouble.  However, this task must be done with finesse.  Otherwise, Gracie will start gagging, and once this starts there’s a good chance she will vomit.  I learned quickly to have her stand in front of the toilet while brushing her teeth, and use extreme caution to avoid causing Gracie to gag.  I hate it when she does vomit, because then she must go to school on an empty stomach (being that she’s eaten breakfast before I brush her teeth).  

The last vomiting episode seems to be a distant memory.  Happy times!  Recently I started working with Gracie by prompting her through all the steps in the brushing routine.  I will have to save this for another post too, sorry.

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